HEARTThe diagnosis. The reversal. TRAVEL30+ countries. Still counting. WRITINGMy thoughts exactly. CREATIVE CORNERIs this a safe space? CAREThat actually cares. PULL UP A CHAIR ↗
Neola Oleta Husbands
Hi. I'm Neola.

PULL UP A CHAIR.

Mom · Momager · Writer · Founder · Traveler ·
Shit disturber. Living with heart disease

I don't tend to stay in my lane.
But I do look in all directions before crossing.

Seen here & there Board ·DCI Canada Speaker ·Intel Innovation Founder ·goneola.com Practice ·neolahusbands.com

"I'd be very pissed if I woke up dead tomorrow knowing I didn't become exactly who I intended to be in this world."

— Neola Oleta Husbands

How many lives can one girl live?

All of them.

I spent many years in rooms that were never meant for me. Foster care. Group homes. Five high schools. I learned where the door was, who held the key, and how to pick the lock when I had to.

Now I spend many more stepping into rooms I was never expected to reach. And speaking on stages they'll swear were handed to me.

I'm building the platforms I needed but couldn't find. And raising my critically-appraised son to know the world the way I know it: fully, on purpose, without apology.

All while living with a diagnosis I refuse to let lead.

I've never entered a room halfway. And there's no point in starting now.

This is me.

If you want the polished version, she lives next door at NeolaHusbands.com.

We sometimes have our nails chipped over here.

There's only one Neola Husbands.

My mother made sure of it. She ordained it.

I instill it. I enforce it.

For the ones taking all of it.
The life they're building and the life they're living right now.

Refuse to stay small? You and I are going to get along.

The rooms she's
lived in.

And stayed in long enough to know something.

01
Building care that actually cares.
Building · goneola · Advisory · DCII wanted the best for them. So I made it my platform. My practice. My board seat. All of it earned, all of it mine.
02
Sigh. Like "I'm a writer."
WritingThat one took guts. The essays, the observations, the writing that took years to call writing.
03
Man, eff heart disease.
Staying AliveDiagnosed with a disease twice my age and somehow expected to just live with it. So I did. And I vow to reverse it. Publicly. On the record.
04
Certified walkabout.
TravelingMy Guyanese grandmother used to say, "you feet too hot." Haven't stayed still since. 30+ countries.
05
Is this a safe space?
The Creative CornerI've been told I have multiple personalities. I've counted about 23. They each left something on a shelf. Come in.

Not sure where to start? Start with the reputation essay →

on the record Neola Husbands — subject of The World at 10, NFB documentary about her childhood integration into Canada
№ 01 · NFB
The World at 10 ↗
Neola Husbands — CBC News interview about her brother's case
№ 02 · CBC
Sit-down interview ↗
Neola Husbands — featured speaker at Intel Innovation 2023
№ 03 · Intel Innovation 2023
Featured speaker ↗
Neola Husbands — Board of Directors at Defence for Children International Canada
№ 04 · DCI Canada
Board of Directors ↗

Available for speaking, advisory, and health partnerships.

Pull up a chair →

The things I don't usually say out loud.

So I wrote them down instead.

№01
The Flagship
Reputation · Name · Legacy

Neola Husbands Has A Reputation.

She doesn't know how to stay in her lane. From foster care to founder, the through-line is the same: do the thing nobody asked you to do, and do it loudly. The flagship essay of this whole site.

8 min read · Pinned
№ 02
Creative Writing · A Letter

I Want To Be The Audacious One.

A letter to the UBC Creative Writing Faculty about ambition, audacity, and the only voice I've ever been able to write in. The application essay, submitted as-is.

6 min read · Black Jesus
№ 03
Foster Care · Policy

The Policy Line. Spoken At The DCI Canada AGM.

As a former Crown ward who grew up in foster care — what advocacy actually requires when the system is the room you're speaking in.

7 min read · Personal · Policy
№ 04
Mother · Memory

Your Love Is My Love.

When my mother died this year, only one song could carry me through. Whitney sang us both home — through addiction, through love, through everything.

16 min read · Memorial
№ 05
Motherhood · The Vow

The Precipice of a Choice.

The moment everything tilted. Pregnancy, refusal, the vow — and what I built once I chose. From the parenting practice.

9 min read · Personal
Read the library →

I write about what it actually costs to build a life worth living — and the prices I've paid.

I want to show up every day as myself
and be rewarded for me.
Not for performing. Just for being.

why you might be here

There's only one Neola Husbands.
And she's available.

Maybe you want to plan a trip with me. Hire the practice — for when something has shifted and no one around you will say it. Partner on heart health. Book me for your stage. Or just follow the woman behind the work.

All doors are open. They lead to the same room.

Pull up a chair
door's open.

Pull up
a chair.

Speaking. Travel. Health partnerships. Writing. Film. Advisory. Press. Or something else entirely.

Tell me what you're working on, why you're here, and what would actually be useful. I read every one.

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