Mom · Momager · Writer · Founder · Traveler ·
Shit disturber. Living with heart disease
I don't tend to stay in my lane.
But I do look in all directions before crossing.
"I'd be very pissed if I woke up dead tomorrow knowing I didn't become exactly who I intended to be in this world."
— Neola Oleta Husbands
How many lives can one girl live?
All of them.
I spent many years in rooms that were never meant for me. Foster care. Group homes. Five high schools. I learned where the door was, who held the key, and how to pick the lock when I had to.
Now I spend many more stepping into rooms I was never expected to reach. And speaking on stages they'll swear were handed to me.
I'm building the platforms I needed but couldn't find. And raising my critically-appraised son to know the world the way I know it: fully, on purpose, without apology.
All while living with a diagnosis I refuse to let lead.
I've never entered a room halfway. And there's no point in starting now.
This is me.
If you want the polished version, she lives next door at NeolaHusbands.com.
We sometimes have our nails chipped over here.
There's only one Neola Husbands.
My mother made sure of it. She ordained it.
I instill it. I enforce it.
For the ones taking all of it.
The life they're building and the life they're living right now.
Refuse to stay small? You and I are going to get along.
And stayed in long enough to know something.
Not sure where to start? Start with the reputation essay →
Available for speaking, advisory, and health partnerships.
Pull up a chair →So I wrote them down instead.
She doesn't know how to stay in her lane. From foster care to founder, the through-line is the same: do the thing nobody asked you to do, and do it loudly. The flagship essay of this whole site.
A letter to the UBC Creative Writing Faculty about ambition, audacity, and the only voice I've ever been able to write in. The application essay, submitted as-is.
As a former Crown ward who grew up in foster care — what advocacy actually requires when the system is the room you're speaking in.
When my mother died this year, only one song could carry me through. Whitney sang us both home — through addiction, through love, through everything.
The moment everything tilted. Pregnancy, refusal, the vow — and what I built once I chose. From the parenting practice.
I write about what it actually costs to build a life worth living — and the prices I've paid.
I want to show up every day as myself
and be rewarded for me.
Not for performing. Just for being.
Maybe you want to plan a trip with me. Hire the practice — for when something has shifted and no one around you will say it. Partner on heart health. Book me for your stage. Or just follow the woman behind the work.
All doors are open. They lead to the same room.
Pull up a chair →Speaking. Travel. Health partnerships. Writing. Film. Advisory. Press. Or something else entirely.
Tell me what you're working on, why you're here, and what would actually be useful. I read every one.